2017…what a year. I can’t say I’m sorry to see it go! When my husband and I were both laid off over the summer, I had no idea how we were going to bounce back. Luckily, it wasn’t as bad as it could have been. We both found new opportunities within a couple months, which I’m very thankful for. 2017 will go down as the year I took the biggest risk in my career yet, and I’m still not quite sure how it will turn out. I guess I’ll find out in 2018.
Here’s what I learned during the great job hunt of 2017:
- When they say the pay is “competitive”, sometimes they mean it’s competitive on Mars.
- I got comfortable with saying “no”. Sometimes it even resulted in a better offer.
- I started asking the questions I used to be too afraid to ask, such as how do you handle conflict as a manager? Regardless of the response, I got the answers I needed to make the best decision possible.
- Sometimes they ask for a unicorn, but they’ll settle for a pony.
- It’s okay if they don’t like what they see in me—having to be someone I’m not at work is way too stressful.
- Being a comedian is probably not in my future, but I still love to make people laugh.
- I need to work on listening to my instincts. There were a few times I ignored them this year (because I wanted them to be wrong) and ended up having a negative experience. Denial has never gotten me what I wanted in life.
- If an employer is treating me poorly during the hiring process or they make commitments they don’t keep, I can walk away.
- Sometimes what seems like a dream job is far from it. And sometimes a “boring” sounding job can be so much more than expected. I can’t judge an opportunity too soon.
- I need to work for a cause I believe in—that’s when my best stories come out of me.
- My cover letter and resume can always be better—even when I think I’ve nailed it this time.
- Some employers will give you feedback when you ask how you can better present yourself (whether it’s your resume, portfolio, or interview skills). I asked for the first time this year—and the answer was almost never what I expected.
- When describing my accomplishments, I embraced the importance of data and statistics and dropped the pointless adjectives.
- Being a woman in a male-dominated profession (video production, in my case) is still an uphill battle. But it’s not one I intend to give up.
- Being a woman with ADHD is a challenge. It’s also a gift—my imagination has no bounds, people.
- Rejection still sucks—it will always suck—but the faster I move on, the faster I get over it. There will always be other opportunities.
- I found myself disappointed a lot this year. Maybe I need to re-adjust my expectations or maybe I need to fight harder for change. More than likely, it’s a little of both.
- Taking two part-time opportunities with two very different organizations isn’t exactly conventional, but the conventional route hasn’t taken me where I want to go so far. So, why not?
As I said above, I’m taking the unconventional route, splitting my time between two very different organizations—a start up and a large non profit—and writing for the awesome folks at TalentWorks. But I plan to go into 2018 with an open mind. I’m excited about all the possibilities. What stories will I dream up? What will I learn about these new industries I’m in? How many new people will I get to know and work with this year?
So, how do I plan to rock 2018?
- I’m going to keep asking questions. Why are we doing things this way? Can we do it better or more efficiently?
- Being an introvert, it can be hard for me to develop new working relationships. But in 2017 I learned just how important those working relationships can be. I plan to make an extra effort to get to know my colleagues this year.
- I’m going to push back when I need to, even when it’s intimidating.
- I’m going to make it a point to learn something new.
- I need to practice better self-care and set boundaries. In particular, this means not checking work email or thinking about work issues when I’m off the clock and making exercise, wholesome meals, and proper sleep a priority. I’m more productive at work and at home when I have “me” time.
- No matter how well things are going, I know I can lose my job tomorrow. It’s time for me to start taking “saving for a rainy day” seriously.
- If I find myself needing to hunt for a job, I’m going to be more selective about the roles I apply for. Unless I need a survival job, I’d rather wait to find the right job than take a role that’s wrong for me.
What about you? What did you learn this year in your job search that you’ll apply in 2018?